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About The Senator's Wife

I started this blog on a whim thinking it would be fun to write about politics while my husband served in the OK State Senate. The jury's still out on that, but having a front row seat on the sideline of Oklahoma politics has been one big adventure.

Pioneer Woman and the Senator’s Wife

It came as no surprise that I would run into my good friend, Pioneer Woman while we were in New York.

You see, Pioneer Woman and I have known each other since before we were born. Our moms have maintained a life long friendship that began in college.  Our dad’s went to Medical School together. We were born two years and one week apart and grew up on golf courses, albeit in separate cities, but we spent the summers together.  We traveled together and even went to the same college together.   After all, we are ‘friends till the end’, from ‘womb to tomb’.

But the similarities don’t end there.  After graduation from USC, PW and I both worked in big cities.  She was in Los Angeles while I worked in Washington DC.  Yet it was no coincidence when we each decided, on our own of course, that we would be moving back home to Oklahoma.  Our lives have always been in sync that way. Always.

And as for our girls…
They will be friends forever because they were friends before they were born. They don’t really have a choice, do they?
So, naturally I just smiled when I learned that PW and the girls would be in New York the same time we would. This came as no surprise at all.  And, boy did we have fun!
We walked the streets and took a lot of photos.  Well, PW did.
I just watched our girls enjoy one another while she documented it for eternity.  Friendships that pick up right where they left off are to be treasured. And their excitement to see one another in New York City was just flat out fun to watch.

Dinner was rather festive at Quality Meats. PW chose the location because when you have one of the country’s best blogs with hundreds of thousands of followers, you receive tons of fabulous recommendations when you travel.  I love having famous friends!

And if you have ever eaten a meal with Pioneer Woman, you are aware that each plate of food is analyzed and photographed.   My salad was “uneventful”, while her 4lb lobster was “divine”.

The girls ditched their gnocchi to inspect the bathroom at Quality Meats!  It’s a girl thing.
Let’s just acknowledge that Quality Meats will never have a shortage of hand towels in their ladies room. Never.

 

Because PW and I  worked hard at having a “happy plate”, we desperately needed to walk off those scrumptious calories.  So what did we do? We headed to Dylan’s Candy Bar.  I love New York for that.

 

Dylan’s is a MUST see in New York.  It is a colorful candy store that was started by Ralph Lauren’s daughter. And I mean colorful!

Just imagine the tub full of gum balls that greets each visitor!  Our girls totally ignored the sign that said ‘please do not touch’.  Can you blame them?

Who knew there could be enough candy to fill a three story building! I treated them to these little vials of sugar while PW gave them empty, plastic bags with instructions to ‘fill them to the brim’ with candy.  Our girls aren’t spoiled or anything.

Of course, some people with a famous blog just can’t leave their technology alone.

But, I suppose when you have over 18,000 followers on twitter alone it’s hard to keep up!
You go girl!

Love, the Senator’s Wife
P.S.  Oops! As of this afternoon, that would be over 19,000 followers on Twitter for PW!  Dang.

A Trip to Tribecca

Last summer a film crew came to our house and filmed our family just doing our normal, every day stuff. It was an, um, lets say an interesting experience and all for a documentary being made on motherhood in America. If I didn’t really like the film’s director so much, I never would have agreed to let them invade our home and our lives for a few days. The thought of having people follow you around just creeps me out. Besides, we are not that interesting.

Anyway, the film’s director, Sarah Klein lives and works in New York and knowing we were going to be there a few days I decided to give her a call. I love knowing interesting, smart people who do important things and after sending me a fabulous list of ‘must see’ items in the Big Apple, Sarah invited me to her studio to screen the film. Of course I said yes.

So, last week in New York I left the Senator in charge….at the American Girl Doll Store…

…while I went on a mission to SoHo. A mission to screen this film and possibly bump in to a famous person or two. And boy did I have fun. It had been too long since I traipsed about independently in a big city. And the SoHo -Tribecca area is like a mecca for artists. You can feel it in the air. That air has atmosphere.

Sarah met me at the door, and quickly pointed out that the apartment where Heath Ledger died was right across the street and occasionally the Olsen twins (Mary Kate and Ashley) will walk by because they live in that building. I wanted to ask if we could hang outside for a while but I didn’t want to be rude. I just took a photo instead.

Maybe I was simply a little hesitant to go in and watch that documentary. But, we did go in and screen the film and it was such a pleasant surprise. She has put together a very interesting piece that follows a handful of mothers in America. It was like watching a reality t.v. show I think, but I tried to look past that (the reality part) and see the bigger picture.

Then we went to a hip restaurant called Cafe Balthazar. I knew it was a really hip place because it was packed at three o’clock in the afternoon and the only spot to sit was at the bar. Bummer. So, we had a glass of wine and talked about the film. We talked about some of her other projects, and about how this film has been released in Europe, but how she is looking at several different options for release in the United States.

I found myself sitting in a very posh New York establishment, talking about life and film with a brilliant documentary film maker. I must have been so enthralled that I forgot I had to be back for dinner by 6:30. Oops.

And it was raining outside which causes a severe shortage of available cabs in New York.

Why is it New Yorkers, who love to walk everywhere, don’t walk in the rain? I don’t even think they take the trains when it’s raining.

Not to worry though, Sarah hailed me a cab in typical New York fashion. I would never have been that, shall we say, gracefully aggressive? As we said our quick goodbyes I knew I did not want this afternoon to end. I need to get out more often. So, I secretly wished that this cab might be the cash cab. Have you ever heard of the cash cab? The cab that drives around New York and asks trivia questions of its passengers…and with each correct answer the passenger gets some cash? I know, I watch too much television.

So, naturally I asked this cab driver if today was my lucky day? Was I riding in the cash cab? He looked at me funny and stuttered for a minute. Then he finally said, “lady, all cabs have cash”.

There was a little language barrier. So I sat back and enjoyed the ride home in silence, quite satisfied that my day with a director across from where Heath Ledger died was good enough.

Next up, dinner with an old friend…

Love, the Senator’s Wife

Big Time in the Big City!


It was a big time in the Big Apple this past week for the Senator.  We just returned from a quick trip to New York City with our daughter and boy did we ever have a great time.  The Senator’s mother came along for the ride too.  The President was also there…and so was Prince Harry.  

The Senator likes to tell people it was our first time to go to New York together.  And he is right about that, even though it was not our first time to ever go to New York.  
However, it was a first for the Senator’s daughter.
I think she had fun.

I tortured them each day with cultural activities.


The Senator tortured me with shopping opportunities.

And fun little rides through Central Park.

And, just so you know, these little bike-carts are the only “Green” way to travel around town. Aside from being “green”, you do meet a rather nice assortment of interesting characters traveling that way!

Love, the Senator’s Wife

Next up, famous people and friends in the Big Apple